Your Husband Is Not Lying, You Are (and It’s Ruining Intimacy for You Both)

[This article contains a rather frank conversation about sexuality. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things. If such topics offend you, please refrain from reading. Thank you!] *     *     *    *    * It was a low point – a point I’m sure most … More Your Husband Is Not Lying, You Are (and It’s Ruining Intimacy for You Both)

What to Do When Your Husband Won’t Put His Clothes in the Basket 

So, apparently this is a hot topic. I know this because am a member of an expat wives group on Facebook. While sometimes I do find being a member of this page useful to my living overseas, I remain a member mostly because I find the free-flow discussion of #firstworldproblems (that I am too lower-class to … More What to Do When Your Husband Won’t Put His Clothes in the Basket 

Love Wins, Every Time

Upon reading an article about one Singaporean pastor’s reaction and opposition to the LGBT Pink Dot festival held in Singapore (whose behaviour I must admit, sounded pretty irrational), one of my coworkers made a remark about how unloving some people were, then turned to me and said, “What would Jesus do?! He would just love everyone … More Love Wins, Every Time

Awakening Love: What to Do When You Just Don’t Want It

[This article contains a frank conversation about intimacy in marriage. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things – and if such things are likely to offend you, please refrain from reading. Thank you!] “Satan tries his best to make people have as much sex as possible before marriage, and … More Awakening Love: What to Do When You Just Don’t Want It

What Biblical Submission Looks Like in the Bedroom {How to Communicate What You Need}

[This article contains a frank conversation about intimacy in marriage. Please read this only if you are mature enough to handle such things, and if such offend you, please refrain from reading. Thank you!] Is Biblical submission, in fact, damaging and dangerous? There are many today who say so, some even to my face. These … More What Biblical Submission Looks Like in the Bedroom {How to Communicate What You Need}

The Selfless Series—#5: Giving Up {Giving Even When It Hurts and You Are Hurting}

Most people would tell you that there are situations during which any kind of behaviour is acceptable—and during which no-one’s needs come above your own. When you are tired, sick, or grieving people will tell you “Take time for yourself!” “Be a little bit selfish!” and “Don’t worry about anyone else!” Most people will also tell you … More The Selfless Series—#5: Giving Up {Giving Even When It Hurts and You Are Hurting}